Maybe it is being 3 or maybe it is just B, but he is full of paradoxes. For example, B likes to ask for sweet treats, but almost never eats them or at least much of them. He will do all sorts of things to get that bit of chocolate/cupcake/cookie, but then often leaves it unfinished. He likes baking treats, but often doesn't really eat them much. I think this is probably good self-control and I'm mostly just using it as an example, but it spans several areas.
Other examples include: B loves sleeping, but will ever so often balk at taking a nap and then minutes later be excited about tucking himself in or want to "play" nap the next day. He will be annoyed at M for being too loud at dinner and then moments later will be "talking" with her at about the same volume. Maybe it isn't a paradox so much as it is just being inconsistent in his wishes and hopes, but some days it can be trying. Other days, it is quite charming somehow. I sort of doubt he even notices that he has inconsistent positions. Every so often it reminds me just a tiny bit of my Grandma Dotter who would gladly argue completely contradictory positions simultaneously at times. (Perhaps she should have been a lawyer too:) Meanwhile, my little man, you're an interesting mix little one and we love almost every minute of it.
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